tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7290987054981548703.post2026066102849686474..comments2023-07-02T05:10:09.598-03:00Comments on serious business: i told you not to do thatseriouslyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11088430950069439625noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7290987054981548703.post-56830163129361757172007-10-24T13:53:00.000-03:002007-10-24T13:53:00.000-03:00THIS IS THE HARD PART:"For some reason, I just rea...THIS IS THE HARD PART:<BR/>"For some reason, I just really don't want to have your premature emotions e-mailed to me after a few dates. Maybe some would find that charming or cute or even honest, but to me it makes me think that this person is worthless. Whatever happened to playing a *little*hard to get, or at least not making yourself SO attainable that it seems like you'd just fall for anyone? I guess that's my problem with these guys who are so completely available. I kind of want to win a guy over and not just feel like he would fall in love with just about anyone."<BR/><BR/>We have to tread lightly, but not so lightly so as not to be noticed. We have to be interested, but not too much, because of what you just described. Speaking as a young man, it's a delicate balance I usually break immediately. Dating to me is confusing because I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, but at the beginning, all signs point to being guarded with your feelings and not being totally honest. As someone who hates to feel disingenuous or dishonest, maybe we should just shut up and not talk about it? But you're right, no one wants somebody completely available... except me.Papagayohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07023009638473472571noreply@blogger.com